Moments of clarity

 Have you ever been in a situation where the conversation flowed effortless, the connection felt genuine, and for a moment, it all just made sense until , suddenly, it didn't?  No goodbye, no explanation. Just silence, you scroll through the messages finding clues. Was it something you said? Something you didn't? And yet the only answer you get is just silence. And that's the feeling of ghosting! It's a very strange emotion that can't be express, and especially when it comes from someone you once trusted deeply. It hits even harder when that person wasn't just anyone, but someone you considered a close friend. And One day you just left confused with unanswered questions and a heaviness in your chest. You replay moments in your mind, wondering what went wrong, but there's only silence. Their sudden absence made you feel like you never really knew them at all.  There are times when people need us, and you were always there whenever they needed you- no matter t...

Who says breakup hurts the most !. Kabhi dosti mai dil tuta h? Come I'll tell you one story.....  7 years back there was a girl full of life , who loves to be around her people, people whom she call her friends, and friends who became her family. For her friendships is something that never changes . She used to believe that anything could be lost but friendship - friendship would always stay with her.  She had a best friend (#Bff) her very first friend with whom she learned the meaning of friendship, who was the most special to her . She used to think that just like the friendships shown in the novels and movies she had the same kind of friendship too. They were very good friends for 5 years and as long as she was with her she never even tried to find friendships in anyone else , for her she was enough .  But as she grew older reality hit her hard. She realised that not everything stays the same forever, life changes , people change and so did her friendship. So many reas...

You know that feeling when you are all happy around a person, a person whom you describe as your friend and with time you started connecting to that person even more. It's a kind of bond where you tell everything to that person how you feel , your emotions, your problems your happy moments everything , and as soon as you started trusting that bond suddenly that bond breaks. I have read somewhere that we can grieve a relationship if it ends on good terms or bad terms whether its intentional or unintentional but what about those bonds that never gave you the reason of broking, which quietly faded away!  The worst part is when someone walkout from your life like they have never been a part of it. On a random morning you  become stranger for the person. And then you started realising a lot of things, you started feeling lonely, sad , confused by  thinking all the time that why they leave.They are may be good in their life and look at you confused, lost. We kept on thinking th...